Tuesday, 29 March 2011

tips for your first night love making

Before you decided to marry your husband or wife, you must have known each other for several years. Some of you may have been staying together for quite sometimes. Either you are a virgin and will have sex for the first time with you husband or this is going to be the first sex after wedding as a husband and wife don’t rush or panic, I have 9 tips for your first night sex or your first wedding night sex.
1. Plan for your wedding night
Discuss openly with each other about your wedding night. By exchanging ideas you will roughly know what type of night both of you will go through and when you plan things properly, your wedding night will go smoothly.
2. Avoid sex few weeks before wedding
This is very important for you to create a good mood during your wedding night. Just imagine when you are hungry, you will eat as much as you can right? To ensure you don’t break this rule, don’t live together, one of you may go to your parents’ house or friends’ house.
3. Try something new or different
Read books or watch some videos or get a little advice from experts. This will definitely give you some new ideas for your wedding night sex.
4. Take things slowly
Don’t rush things. Make it like it is your first love night. Try to make it among your most romantic and intimate sexual experiences.This is one time event in your lifetime (hopefully) and make sure you enjoy it to the fullest.
5. Extent your wedding night to a wedding morning
Wedding will definitely make you exhausted. If both of you are too tired to have sex, isn’t it sweet if you can wait until tomorrow morning? After couple of hours sleep, you will have better mood to make love.
6. Wear something special
Wedding night lingerie can really help the mood. Pick something a little different than what you usually wear to excite your partner. Make sure you feel confident in it, as a confident lover is almost always a better lover.
7. Set the stage
Help yourselves get into the mood by setting the stage. Light some candles, bring some CDs and a radio, scatter rosepetals, or do whatever helps you get in the mood. And don't be afraid to kick friends and family out early. While they may tease you a little, they'll certainly understand!
8. Flirt with each other
Compliment one another. Don't bother about the rest of the family. Your family and friends already had good time at your wedding. Now is the time for you to take care of yourself and your good mood. Exchange kisses, looks and occasional touches. That will create a mood for the night.
9. Lower your expectations
Both of you are tired. Organizing and attending a wedding is not a piece of cake. Just enjoy the moment and stay in each others arms if you are too tired for something else. just take it easy and look at things calmly. After all, you will have your whole life together.
Personal recommendation
Marriage is one of happiest moment in life and this event will not be completed without going for a honeymoon. I personally recommend you to experience the all-inclusive honeymoon package offered by Exclusive Sandals Honeymoon PackagesYou will have the opportunity to visit those Caribbean countries such as Jamaica, St Lucia, Antigua and Bahamas. The package is really affordable and you will have the opportunity to experience luxurious accommodations, gorgeous tropical settings, beautiful beaches and romantic dinners for two. Your first night will be more meaningful this way.

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